The Unbroken Chord - A Portrait of Lebanese Resilience
Carol Baliki
10/22/20264 min read


Lebanon's sound is not the boom of fireworks or the crack of gunfire, though those have been part of its symphony for too long. It is the sound of a wooden spoon against a clay pot, of a mother stirring a pot of lentil soup while the radio plays a love song from a bygone era. It is the sound of a hammer on a nail, a saw on wood, a shovel in the dirt-the relentless, defiant music of rebuilding.
It is the sound of a people who have learned that resilience is not a loud roar. It is a quiet, stubborn hum. It is the decision, made every single morning, to get out of bed when the weight of the world says stay down. To understand Lebanese resilience is to understand that it is not a trait. It is a practice. It is an art form honed over generations, passed down like a family recipe. It is the art of making something out of nothing. The generator that sputters to life on a hot afternoon, powering a whole neighborhood's refrigerators and a single television set so the children can watch cartoons. The rooftop garden, planted in old paint buckets and discarded tires, that somehow yields tomatoes sweeter than any supermarket. The WhatsApp group that, within minutes of a catastrophe, transforms into a rescue team, a soup kitchen, and a counseling service.
This is the resilience of the everyday. It is not found in grand speeches or heroic statues. It is found in the woman in Tripoli who, after losing her shop for the third time, opened it again the next day with a new coat of paint and a wider smile. It is found in the teacher in the Bekaa Valley who holds class under a tree because the school has no roof, and whose students still score higher than any in the capital. It is found in the father who walks miles to find a specific brand of yogurt because his daughter, who is scared of the dark and the noise, will only eat that one.
The world often asks, "How do they do it?" The answer is simple and terrible: they have no choice. But that is not the whole truth. The whole truth is that they have a choice, and they choose life. They choose to plant a tree they may never sit under. They choose to bake bread for a neighbor whose kitchen has been destroyed. They choose to dance at a wedding in a hall with no electricity, the music coming from a phone and the light coming from the moon.
This is a resilience that is not stoic. It is not silent. It is loud, and it is colorful, and it is full of arguments and laughter and the clinking of glasses. It is the resilience of a people who know that sorrow is a guest, but it is not the owner of the house. I remember a story a friend told me about her grandfather in Byblos. During the civil war, a shell destroyed the front wall of his house. He swept up the rubble, found the family's old phonograph, and placed it on a chair in the middle of the open room. He put on a record of a famous singer, turned up the volume, and sat in his armchair, facing the street, listening to music as the dust settled. When a neighbor ran by, horrified, and asked what he was doing, he simply said, "I am claiming my living room back."
That is Lebanon. It is a man claiming his living room back. It is a woman claiming her kitchen back. It is a child claiming a patch of pavement back to play football. It is the act of saying, "You can take my walls, but you cannot take my song." The Lebanese have a word for this: "sumud". It means steadfastness. But it is more than that. It is a gentle, ferocious refusal to be erased. It is the knowledge that while empires rise and fall, while currencies collapse and governments fail, the heart of a people beats on. This is not a heart without scars. It is a heart that is essentially one large scar, held together by threads of memory and hope and the smell of jasmine. It is a heart that has been broken so many times it has learned to beat differently-stronger, stranger, more beautiful.
And so, when you look at Lebanon, do not look at the rubble. Look at the hands that are clearing it. Do not look at the dark windows. Look at the candles burning on the balconies. Do not look at the headlines. Look at the grandmothers, teaching their grandchildren the songs of Fairuz, the recipes of their ancestors, the names of the stars. The cedar tree on the flag is not just a symbol of eternity. It is a symbol of a tree that grows slowly, that digs its roots deep into rocky soil, that survives drought and storm. It is a tree that does not need to be the tallest in the forest to be the most enduring.
Lebanon will not be saved by a politician or a peace treaty or a foreign power. It is saved every single day, in a thousand small acts of love, by a people who refuse to let the light go out. They are the unbroken chord in a broken symphony. They are the proof that resilience is not about surviving the fire. It is about learning to dance in the embers. And they will keep dancing. Because that is what they do. That is who they are. That is Lebanon.
The Unbroken Chord - A Portrait of Lebanese Resilience
Photo by: Emma Jowdy
ABOUT AUTHOR
Former HR person, current writer.
I now cover Lebanon.
It’s basically the same job:
Listening to chaos, organizing it into bullet points, and pretending I’m not emotionally involved.
Seeking a challenge that couldn’t be solved by a meeting invite or a performance review.




